Dogs are not humans. Before they receive love and affection, they need exercise, clear direction and leadership. ~Cesar Millan
Choosing the right dog! At the right time!
The decision to adding a dog to your family pack is exciting and sometimes overwhelming! What type of dog is best for yur family and current situation? Asking yourself the right questions and researching your chosen breed can go a long ways toward helping you find the perfect canine companion!
1.) What exactly does your family or yourself expect from this dog?
Are you looking for a dog to roughhouse with? Are you looking to feel a void? Are you looking for a dog that will guard your home? Are you looking for a dog to be your surrogate "child?" Please really take a step back and ask yourself questions on why you truly want a dog. Dog's are pack oriented animals that understand DOG PSYCHOLOGY only and if you are only wanting a dog and making up human emotions for them, then a dog is not right for you at this point in time. A dog should be a companion for you, but you should also look into completely fulfilling their needs and think in a pack mentality. Properly fulfilling your dog is essential to having a happy balanced relationship with them.
2.) How much time do you have to spend with a dog?
Realistically if you are away from home for more than 8 to 9 hours everyday, then a dog should be something to wait on. Dogs are highly social animals and require human interaction. Dogs are likely to behave when their pack leader is present and providing rules, boundaries and limitations. Please don't think a dog will entertain themselves while you are away. They will look to destroying your items and garden out of frustration. Unless you are able to provide adequate exercise or have the necessary funds to take your dog to doggie daycare, or hiring a dog walker, please wait on getting a dog.
3.) How physically active are you?
Match your dog's exercise needs with your own activity level. If you have a working breed, you will need to be an active person. If you have a sporting breed, (like Labradors, Pointers, Golden Retrievers) you should probably be a jogger/runner. If you are not draining your dog's energy, your dog will become frustrated and find an outlet to drain their energy. This could eventually turn into aggression if not dealt with. Please do LOTS of research on your breed of choice. Just because you like the "look" of a certain breed does not mean you would make a perfect match. Research, research, research!!! Always match your energy level to the dog's.
4.)Are you a strict disciplinarian or a pushover?
Some dogs need a very firm, consistent Pack Leader to do their best in a family setting. Others simply need a gentle "No" to get the point, and would wilt under any stronger correction. Match the breed's temperament and training needs to your leadership style. Make sure to always use calm assertive energy when disciplining your dog. If you act out of frustration, your dog will only pick up on your weak energy and either fear you, or not take you seriously!
Please make sure to do all your research and homework before selecting a breed and bringing a dog into your home. A dog is a commitment for it's entire lifetime of 10 to 15 years. Make sure you are ready for that kind of responsibility. Always look into your shelters, rescue organizations or humane society to find your next pet. Don't shop...ADOPT! Save a life!